Jun
2013
happy father’s day Mr. M! (2013)

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May you continue to have way too much fun with your little munchkin/sidekick/lookalike for ever and ever into the future!
trying to make every day extraordinary

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May you continue to have way too much fun with your little munchkin/sidekick/lookalike for ever and ever into the future!
I’ve been spending a lot of time in the past month searching for travel deals. That’s not a complaint, because it really just means that there’s a lot of travel coming up around the corner! And it just points to all signs that I won’t settle for just booking something and letting that be…
Four whole years ago, I wrote a post about my process of finding online travel deals, and I thought I would update it here to share what small little things have changed…
hipmunk.com : The reason to use hipmunk first is simple… the “agony” metric. It’s exactly what you’re looking for when planning a flight. What’s the most reasonable fare I can get that won’t make me tear my hair out? It does a pretty good job mapping out all of the possibilities it can for you, and also allows you to sort by price, duration, departure, arrival, airlines, airports & stops, and lays out the options in a great graphical way. It’s the perfect way to see what’s out there and what possible flights you’re looking for. You can also set a “fare alert” with your email to get updates on that search. (this is where your patience can pay off!)
kayak.com : Kayak is still great to use for clicking “on/off” your choices and eliminating the options, and I love the +/- 3 day matrix for trips where you can be a bit more selective in your days of travel.
bookingbuddy.com: If you NEED to make sure that you’ve checked ALL THE SITES, then this spot is your best friend. BookingBuddy opens up a mini-browser experience that opens and suggests all of the tabs you need to search for your trip. And it pre-loads your trip data into those windows. Sure, other sites do this, but usually by opening extra windows on your computer. Here, it’s all tucked into one site.
southwest.com: Southwest doesn’t operate on any metaseach engines so you’ll have to visit the site on its own to compare fares. But there’s little fluctuation in pricing and you can rebook your tickets for the cost savings for a later trip AT ANY TIME! Check out what the fares are, book if it works for you, then wait for every Tuesday – Thursday, sign in and see if the current fare sale applies to your trip for a cheaper fare!
Many of us book travel with different priorities and needs. If you ever happen upon a flight that fits your perfect time/location/fare needs, don’t hesitate to buy it. It’s simple economics to know that you’re happy if your needs are met at the price you’re willing to pay. But if those items are out of line, then this is where patience moves in.
Subscribe to price alerts from any of the websites above, subscribe to airline deal emails from the airlines you prefer to travel on out of your home airport (i.e. Virgin America from SF/LA, United, Delta, etc.). Certain airlines have coupon codes, run frequent promotions, and knowing these patterns or what to search for can help a lot! For example, VA usually has 20% coupons floating around on their FB page for contests… which are always to sign up for and keep and use to book tickets during a fare sale!
Check your metasearch engines daily at one specific time to see if any prices lowered and be ready to book the ticket at a moment’s notice if the perfect fare is there! It’s happened to me before… where I’ve lost a fare having to text/call/email to confirm plans with others and seen amazing fare sale fares disappear!
The most frustration I’ve had lately in booking travel is hotel room pricing fluctuation. In booking a room for a SF wedding, I seriously searched daily for over a month and saw prices on hotel rooms fluctuate $200+/night. One night a room was $179, the next it was $349, and then a week before our trip it was at $159. What’s incredibly annoying about this is that the new “hidden costs” in hotel bookings are the room taxes… which obviously go more as the prices increase… no linear pricing for you! If you can, narrow down your hotel choices early on in the game so that you’re only looking at a few options rather than EVERY SINGLE HOTEL IN AN AREA every time you check prices… because you will go crazy. But, that said, with my patience and persistence, my recent bookings nabbed 2 nights in Union Square in SF for Memorial Day weekend for $255 total (compared to avg room rate of $189/night + taxes), and 3 nights in Anaheim in August for $279 total (compared to avg room rate of $139/night + taxes).
BookingBuddy.com (for ALL the hotel sites), Room77.com (for AAA/Senior/Govt rate quotes), BiddingforTravel.com (find out what hotels are available when you’re bidding on Priceline/Hotwire), Hotwire.com, DealAngel.com (shows you if it’s an actual DEAL based on historic prices)
Just as with flights, do a search to know what the “price to beat” is ahead of time… and make that reservation RIGHT THEN. You know, the fully cancellable up to 24 hours ahead of time reservation on whatever site you want. That way, you’re not missing out on a trip because you waited, and you don’t lose out if the prices happen to increase.
Then sit back with a list of other possible hotels, and do your searches as often as you’d like. If you find a better deal, then you book it and cancel the previous one. Rinse and repeat as often as you’d like. If you find an amazing deal that is non-refundable, then book it if everything else is set! And… if you’re comfortable with trying Priceline, then bid silly low prices (using the instructions for rebids on biddingfortravel.com) and see if you nab anything!
Also be on the lookout for coupons/rebates to use on travel sites for booking!
I’ve booked lots of rental car deals for Mr. M on his work trips, and I’m always amazed with the variation in prices that will come up. I’ve gotten him a car on priceline for $8/day one week, and then struggled to find a rate under $30 on the next trip for the same car/airport/etc. Yet, this is another travel expense that I’ve worked into a “deal” system.
hipmunk.com & bookingbuddy.com & hotwire.com
priceline.com: Once I’ve done my research on bookingbuddy.com and hotwire.com on the lowest prices for each car category, I go to priceline to start the car bidding process. Cars are really easy on priceline, because you get 3-4 bidding chances each day, one for each class of car you’re after. If you can settle for a compact, start there with your lowest bid price and move up, and as long as you can beat hotwire’s price you’ve usually gotten a deal! I usually start around $13 and bid up by $2 until I hit mid-size… then try again the next day at $14.
For some people, all of this is incredibly frustrating and they just want a car the first time around or need to go through a certain company, so there’s always this discount code list for reference and coupon sites as well!
So…. phew… was that enough of the explanation of the crazy trip planning that I do? Yeah… insane right?
Do you have any tips to share or incorporate into this madness?
For her birthday, Miss L got her first sleeping bag. And for us, that translates very easily into family camping!
Mr. M and I were kids who camped. And the memories of those places and the fun are still very present in our mind. I’d much prefer a weekend in Yosemite to a hotel stay any day… heck, just 15 minutes in the meadows of Yosemite Valley at sunrise is a vacation in itself. So, needless to say, we want to make sure that Miss L gets to enjoy those experiences too and fall in love with nature just as we did as kids.
But before we pack up the car with our tents and gear and head up into the redwoods or over into the Sierras, we need to do a “test run” of that whole camping experience.
For us, that’s going to be the Great American Backyard Campout on June 22nd!
The campaign, by the National Wildlife Federation, is “designed to encourage a new generation to explore the wonders of nature and have fun with a classic family friendly outdoor activity camping.”
Their website has all the details with tips on how to get ready, so it makes the whole adventure really easy to create in your backyard! I’m going to pitch in some extra camping tips next week before as well, just in the spirit of all things camping!
And, if you’d like, feel free to jump in and sign up to camp with your family in your own backyard on June 22nd by signing in here and clicking JOIN TEAM! The whole activity is a fundraiser for the National Wildlife Federation, so if you’d like to sign up to participate and raise funds, you can do so right from the sign-up page! (But it’s not necessary to raise funds in order to participate)
here’s a snippet of what life looked like via Instagram in May 2013
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Last night, Miss L and I read “The Lorax” before going to sleep. It wasn’t the first time we’ve read the book together, nor the 5th or 10th time since she got in last November. But it was the first time she cried while we read it.

“And at that very moment, we heard a loud whack!
From outside in the fields came a sickening smack
of an axe on a tree. Then we heard the tree fall.
The very last Truffula Tree of them all!”
The biggest drip drop of a tear came out of her left eye and hit me on my elbow. I looked over and saw her face stuck in a frown and more tears were welling up.
It took us a minute to get through the sad pages and pictures of blackened grickle-grass, before the hopefulness appeared again.
“UNLESS someone like you
cares a whole awful lot,
nothing is going to get better.
It’s not.”
We talked about how good people can care a lot and make a difference. And how she could take care of the animals and keep the water and air clean as well. And she said that when she grew up, she’d like to be the Lorax, but for now, she’s just a L. And I felt a strong duty to make sure that she could accomplish that task, and be a good citizen of our lovely planet.
When I put the book back on the shelf, I thought about how a moment this weekend when all of the guests at a wedding had teared up this past weekend when the sister of the groom quoted Dr. Suess in her loving speech. And then I thought about all of the Suessisms floating around right now due to graduation season and the proliferation of “Oh the Places You’ll Go!”
And I thought about just how much better our lives might be if we kept reading Dr. Suess daily as adults, and took his philosophy to heart.
Luckily I get the excuse to do it right now without even thinking about it. And I’ll take a little bit more of it to heart from now on…